If your like me you probably spend time trying to figure out what will make your guy happy. Its true that Men are truly from Venus and we are from Mars so how do we bridge the gap?
It's called Communication. I know its sounds like an old story but actually it depends on who your talking to. Ladies nothing can settle hot coals like coming to your man and sitting down on him OOPs I mean sitting down with him and talking about his feelings. Any guy whose seriously into you will tell you exactly how he feels. Its up to you to take what he's saying to heart. The way to a man's heart has been said to be through his stomach but I have to say its through ummm his ego. Yes that's right his ego. If you have a good relationship he wont keep that ego securely hidden from you. He will not only let you in he will pull up a chair so you can cater to it properly.
During interviews with men ages 39 to 44 about "The power of a Good Women" I got up close and personal with the mans perspective.
Eddie, 39 Says that he really enjoys the simple things from his mate. He enjoys a surprise walk in the park after work, showering together or a simple dinner in front of the TV with his girl. "I love it when we just sit and talk". Made him feel close to her in their at home spaces.
Clay, 41 Likes the expensive stuff. He likes it when his lady plans a night out on the town dining, drinking and dancing. "We don't do that kind of stuff too much anymore but once every few months its a good time". Made him feel like she still thought he was sexy.
Danny 44 Was so excited to tell me about what his special lady does that made him feel like a million bucks. "I really love it when my girl heats up hot oil and rubs me down from head to toe. Its like the best thing in the world to me!"
Its clear that a definition of a good woman is the compilation of many things and many different needs. Every mans love language is different its your job to figure out what each others love language is so your minds truly are talking to each other. For me it was just nice to hear men feeling so good about being close with their significant other. Love is Grand!
