1. You picked the wrong guy: You are seeing someone but he's selfish with his time and doesn't make time for you. Translation he's not taken by you at all. Get rid of him. That's like having 10 old sweaters from 3 years ago lying around in your closet. If you keep the old ones how can you fit the new ones in that you can actually wear in the closet. Bye!
2. You have no idea where to find men your equally yoked with: If your having trouble putting yourself in an open forum where men can find you GET ON LINE. There are so many opportunities for solid relationships on many sites. Stop being lazy and get with the program.
3. Your waiting for him to show up at your front door: That's never going to happen unless you want to date the pizza delivery guy or the pipefitter that fixes the furnace. Ummm did I say Pipefitter. LOL. Just kidding. Anyway you have got to put more energy into your LIFE! If you don't, it wont happen.
4. Your making excuses and blaming it on work: Guess what? All the people at work have a life and you are choosing not to. Get up, Get Out & Get Something. Stop fooling yourself that a relationship is just going to show up out of thin air. Work to Live not Live to Work.
5. You don't think you look good: Low Self Esteem believe it or not is one of the #1 reasons why women are not dating and are alone on the weekend. There's only one thing to do; MAKEOVER! Get a new hairstyle, get your nails done and buy some sexy clothing. I promise when a girl gets a new look it almost changes her life and her mind. Go get it!
These are some pointers to get you started. Here's to that special someone finding you. If you act like you want something better you will get it!
Happy Dating!
