Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Has Online Dating Saved Your Dating Life?


Hi, My name is Jim and I enjoy long walks and longer books.  Blah, Blah, Blah. I've tried online dating extensively only to be even more disappointed than I was with my face  to face meetings with the opposite sex.  In a simple statement from my brain to yours  "it sucked".  It was probably the biggest waste of money I've ever spent.  To my surprise the people were not who they said they were at all.  Online they were mysterious and clever.  In person they were frumpy and unemployed.  At a couple dates I even burst out laughing at the comparison of the profile and the actual person.
What do think about the online dating rave?  Is it working for you and if so tell us how we can make it work for us?  Can't wait to hear from you!  Please post at TheDatingFactor.Blogspot.com      :)

If Your Significant Other Cheats; Do You Stay Or Do You Go.....


Most people would believe that there is a clear answer to this question.  I know from experience that there isn't a clear cut answer to this question.  Personally I could never accept my significant other being untruthful to me in our relationship.  I definitely would not deal with infidelity.  However others have made choices that are contraire  to my preference on this topic.  I feel that its destructive to believe that being with someone who has disrespected you in this way can be forgiven.  The relationship will never be the same and you will be forever changed for it; in a bad way if you choose to stay.   
What would your decision be in this type of situation?  Would you stay or would you go?  And if you would stay, why?  I think there are lots who would want to hear your thoughts.