Let Him Chase You!

This post is going to be short and sweet because its Friday night and there's no time to waste.  If you meet a great guy and you exchange numbers, do yourself a favor.  Wait for him to call you.  Most men are hunters, if you take that away from him you loose a little bit of your sparkle.  Let him chase you, call you and ask you out.  As long as you let him be a man everything should move in a natural progression. 

Good Luck & Happy Dating!

Kimberly

What Should You Do When He Tells You: Dont Tell People Were Dating!

Is this happening to you?  Are you thinking, am I making stuff up or does this seem weird? Are you questioning yourself wondering if your being too passive?  If your not questioning yourself you should be. 

Listen, if a man wants to be with you he's excited about you and is really happy to tell everyone everywhere that the two of you are an item.  It shouldn't be a big secret that your together.  Do you have a huge SINGLE status on your FB page?  And because you have been warned by him never ever to post a picture of the two of you out on the town your now questioning the validity of the relationship.  Has he given you a sit down conversation quietly about why he believes its important not to tell people or post anything socially?  Its embarrassing that it happened but you have to address this situation.  Because if you don't, you will never get what you want. Stop living in this imaginary land that he has created that the two of you live on. 

Your fooling yourself if you believe you are the only one he is seeing.  This is a clear sign that he is not exclusively seeing you.  And definitely has some commitment issues when it comes to you. 
He could possibly be seeing other women and telling them the exact same thing while sleeping with you.  There are clear signs to know if the guy your with is on the up and up.  Ignoring those red flags will not make them go away.  A guy that's WITH you will post a lovely photo of the two of you on his Facebook account as soon as possible.  He wants everybody to know this is my girl, Don't Touch!

Remember what I've told you the next time your smiling pretty with him for the camera.  See if he will allow you to post the picture on your Facebook.  If he says no and becomes defensive there's your answer. 

Stay savvy ladies.  Happy Dating!

Kimberly

Younger Woman, Older Woman Study: How Old Of A Man Will You Date?

It's a bold question but one that comes up in girlfriend conversations frequently.  While conducting conversations with different women of different ages I was shocked by what women felt about the older man?  The results were informative and mind opening, younger woman were more willing to date a slightly less attractive older man with the exception that he is financially stable.  Given that fact the younger women would date the older guy and pass by a younger guy who may not have all his ducks in a row so to speak.  The older women's response to dating older men was a concern of "Sexual Stamina".  Most of the older women felt that sexual compatibility was on the top of the list.  His financial status fell considerably below the importance that younger women rated the possibility of dating an older man.  15 years was the standard for the ladies in their 30's and the 50-60 year old women preferred a man 10-20 years younger than them.  So it was a difference between Financial Security and Sexual Stamina. 

What do you think?  Would you choose sex over finance for a prettier and tighter body?  Let me know what's on your mind when it comes down to it.

Even still dating should be fun.  Pick whom you choose.  Just be happy with that choice no matter what anybody thinks.

As always Happy Dating!

Kimberly