The Holidays: A Time For Romance!

It's the Holidays and I have to say I am excited! Excited to share my Holiday with special people in my life.  The opportunity to share what God has given you to put a smile on someone's face.  An opportunity to create a very special moment letting them know that yes God is still here!  It's an excellent time to be dating and creating special memories to last a lifetime. 

This Holiday if your in a relationship take the time to allow the man your seeing to create special moments for the two of you.  If he is clueless about what to do, give him ideas about the things that you could do together to create some holiday MAGIC*.  If you yourself have no ideas, here are some of mines:
-Sleigh Ride
-Ice Skating
-Musical or Play
-Concerts
-Ski Trip
-Holiday Parties - Ugly Christmas Sweater Party
-Black Tie Holiday Party
-Tree Trimming at your house.  He's the Guest of Honor.  :)
-Hit The Streets - Holiday Shopping
-Look at the lights with Hot Chocolate
-City Events - Check your local events

If your not seeing anyone special then its time to get up and get out!  Respond back to some of those Match.com invitations to meet up.  Put on something fabulous and get to the Holiday Parties and Nosh with some Hot Gentleman in the City. No point in wasting all that beauty and fashion at home.  Enjoy your life today. If you don't go out they cant meet you and date you!  You Go Girl!  You Sexy and you still got it!  Wink & Smile. 

Take Away:  You Are Beautiful!  Believe it.  Live it! 

Happy Holiday's Dolls! 

He Licked What? On Who? And Kissed You? Gross!

I'm about to get real with you Ladies.  But this post is about Cheaters.  Guys who are with someone but scream to the sky they want and need to spend time with you! Wonderful you!  Okay that's real cute but what about that significant other that he's with.  That girl he goes home to and sleeps with, has sex with.  The girl who he just had sex with in every way imaginable and then showed up to meet you with her still on him and her in his MOUTH!  OMG.  Yes I said it because its true.  Your basically kissing her thang thang an hour after. 

First of all its gross and secondly you need to get your mind right.  Are you sloppy seconds?  Do you deserve no commitment, no truthfulness, no authenticity, no real love, no honesty.  Is this what you deserve?  If you keep down playing yourself into an imitation of life, to visit some girls reality and be happy about whatever you get your not living a golden life, your living a whorish life.

That man will smile in your face, tell you your beautiful but all the while thinking the very least of you. He's only interested in getting what he wants.  IT'S NEVER ABOUT YOU.  And the most patient of men will wait for what they want.  Don't continue to put yourself in a box that says you have a price and can be bought.  The minute you settle for LESS is the moment to realize you've settled for even Less than what you have gotten. 

Ladies Know Your Worth!

Take Away:  If You Act Like It, you Will Be Treated Like IT.

Love You Dolls!  Love. One.

My Match.com Journey! Date #1

Hi Ladies!

I've got news to share with you.  If your not dating you absolutely need to get on Match.com.  I've recently went on a couple dates and it has been an eye opening experience.  My first date was well planned, we went to Ten Pin and then Unlisted for dinner and dancing.  It was a great date but no Sparkle or Fireworks and you know what that's Okay!  We had a good time and good conversation. 

My advice to you is that you should always be open to LOVE!  It's why were here.  To Love and Be Loved.

Take away:  Men Can't Date You If They Can't See You!  Go For it!

Stay Encouraged!

Love You Dolls!


Kimberly

Double Dating: Yay or Nay?

So I just recently have started dating someone who has become my new plus one.  Double Triple Stars!  With our new found love has come quite a few invitations to double date. My initial response is, "That sounds great lets plan it!"  After a few days I revisited the idea and thought "Naw". 

In my opinion double dating is for couples who have exhausted everything and need props to make the evening interesting.  The two of us are interesting enough and props are the last thing we need.  Enjoy your Happy Bubble!  These first moments only happen once you Lucky Girl!
I think double dating is a good time at the right time.  At the beginning it's so important to have that bonding time.  Spending time with that special someone can truly be a time of discovery and fun!  Enjoying quiet time alone, Going on date nights and Cuddling is the time to get in each others nook.  Get to know the core of a person and decide if you want to spend another minute with this guy.  But more than likely if your even considering a double date things are going fine. 
My advice is to PUMP THE BRAKES on the double dating idea for at least 3 months and see how it goes.   

*Be Authentically You.  Love Yourself.  Be True To Thine Self.  Honesty Is Important.*

Important Take Away:  Covet what's important to you

Love You Ladies. Enjoy the Holidays!

Ways and Tips To Be Sexier On A First Date!

Hi Ladies,

I know its been a while since we've gotten to dish but I got busy with life and now I'm back to keep you on track with your dating!

I've found that some of you are still challenged when it comes to what to wear and do to be at your best on a first date.  Well I'm going to give you the tools and some ideas on how to totally knock his socks off on the first date and keep him coming back for more!

1.  First of all remember he asked you out so he should be totally excited that you said "Yes"!  So be confident in knowing you have it going on already with all the right equipment. 

2.  Be the same YOU.  He already likes you so don't go on the date acting like a totally different person.  Be your wonderful self.  Have an open mind and be prepared to have a great night out on the town.

3.  When your out together make sure your not looking at other men.  Listen to his conversation.  This is Field Work ladies use it to your advantage.  And make sure your a conversationalist.  Bring your A game. The both of you will only get to make a first impression ONCE. 

Esthetics:
Rule # 1 You absolutely need to workout that morning.  It makes a big difference in how you feel and look! 
Rule # 2  You have to go for a Mani-Pedi.  Following a trip to the hair salon to get your coif perfectly washed and styled.
Rule # 3  Make sure you wear a bit of makeup.  Red Lips are always a winner.  Don't pile on makeup like WAR PAINT!  NO!  Men typically like less makeup.  Show as much of your natural beauty as possible. 
Rule # 4  Your Outfit! Hopefully its a night out on the town.  Or even if its a Daytime Date you should look stunning!  Wear a Dress, something flirty, fun but not too sexy or revealing. Sexy but not Slutty.  Hopefully you can spot the difference but if you cant you can reach out to me @ Kimberly_Hawthorne007@yahoo.com.

Rule # 5  Last but not least.  BE A LADY.  After all the work you put in don't mess it up by sleeping with him.  This includes oral sex or heavy petting.  ITS TOO SOON FOR ALL OF THAT!  Be a Virtuous Woman and go home with your morals intact and be prepared for a second invitation to spend time together.  You can say Yes or No but you absolutely want him to be over the moon about YOU! 

So I hope this is helpful information and helps you have the best DATE NIGHT EVER!  Go Get It And Bring It Back Ladies!  As always Love Ya! 

Let me know how it goes and also check me out on Facebook for Daily Quotes, Fashion Tips and Inspiration! 

When He Lives At Home With His Momma..........

If dating wasn't hard enough already, we also have to deal with all the details surrounded with the person.  All things being constant something's are simply deal breakers.

For example a friend was just sharing with me how she had met this great guy.  She liked him enough to take it to the next level and decided to go home with him after dinner for a little one on one.  She said the night was going great and she was looking forward to making out with him.  To her surprise when they walked in the front door his Mother was in the living room camped out. 

he looked at her and said this is my mother.  She took one look at that woman and ran out the front door.  He chased her and said what's wrong?  She asked him "Do you live with your mother?"  He replied well yeah sure what's wrong with that?  Needless to say that was the last time she went out with that guy.  She liked him but where can they really go with that? 

If you were in a similar situation would you stay or would you go?  Would you date a guy that lives at home with his Mother? 

In my opinion its time to grow up and cut the strings already.  To keep it simple, "IT'S NOT HOT!"

Make Good Choices.

Happy Dating Darlings,

Kimberly