Sunday, April 10, 2016

First Date Magic - Can It Happen?

 


It's the perfect Saturday night and you have a date!  It's date night all over the world so no wonder why a beautiful woman like you wouldn't be excited for such an outing.  So can you have MAGIC on a first date?  Absolutely. 
Here's a glimpse of what that may look like:
You've spent special time choosing the right dress and shoes, getting your nails and hair done all so you can hear those magic words, "You look amazing!"  You sit across from your handsome suitor wondering what he's thinking and then as he's talking to you in great detail about the wonders of the world he touches your hand and holds it and you smile on the inside.  A clear indicator that the eagle has landed and he is definitely buying whatever you are selling.  And whats not to like right?  Your smart, beautiful and obviously a great catch.  The two of you like each other enough to go to another venue for a drink to further extend the great moment that appears to be building in the beginning stages that will possibly lead to a second date.  You stare into each others eyes laughing, smiling and blushing.  The night is a hit and you are so glad you said yes to this date.  As you end your evening walking hand and hand your thinking this was a pretty great night.  Then poof!  It's MAGIC.  He kisses you and all of a sudden everything around you moves in slow motion.

In my opinion if your not having moments like that its time to get out and start dating.  You can't meet him at home unless he's a service professional coming to the house.  But thats not a typical option. But really magic can happen between two people who have genuine chemistry for each other. However you have to be open to the possibility of...........  You may go on 2, 3, 4 bad dates and then POOF!  MAGIC Happens. Yes Magic ladies!

Get out your dresses and heels and get dating! Your magic could be right around the corner.

Inspiration:  If you don't change your behavior nothing will change!  It's time to LEAP.....

Same Night Hook Ups - Are You A Slut?

 

This is a tricky and old subject however I think a lot of people still need some guidance when it comes to knowing the basics of dating.  If your interested in reading my Dating 101 post please go through the posts and have a read and update yourself!

In any case ladies if you want these men to respect you and treat you the way you always imagined a man would treat you, you have got to resist jumping into bed with guys the first day you meet or go out to dinner with them. There's a name that they may call you after this one night of bad judgement.  Actually a few names that I wont list here as I believe we already know what they are.  Besides it not being a good look its simply not safe!  There are sexually transmitted diseases that you could be exposing yourselves to.  You have to be a smarter, savvier and more sophisticated lady in the way you carry yourself.  I'm hoping that I wont have to review this again and that you ladies are set straight.  So I'll leave you with this, from the mouth of my Grandfather to his daughters growing up, "Don't Step Out Your Step In's".

On that note be well, be safe, be gracious, be a lady.

Positive Note:  There is nothing wrong with you.  You are the apple of Gods eye.  You are perfectly made and deserve the very very best always!