He Should Like Me The Way I Am!

Hello Ladies!

It's been a while since I've shared with you.  I always find it interesting to talk to other women about their ideas about dating.  Usually I'm shocked at some of the things I hear and just try to guide them in a direction that makes sense.  I was recently at a gathering where a group of ladies were talking about dating.  One of the ladies talked about how a guy recently backed out after only one date.  They met on Match.com and he told her that the picture was a bit thinner than her current size.  She was upset that he told her she didn't look like the same girl and felt he was lied to.  I had to intervene and ask her "why did you think he was wrong?"  She said well he should like me the way I am.  She went on to tell how they spoke on the phone several times and hit it off. 

I went on to tell her as much as she may be a beautiful person on the inside and outside to herself no one has to take her at all.  Ladies, you have to know that esthetics are important and we have to present what we expect.  If you want an attractive, smart and charismatic person you need to mirror that to some extent.  You cant just let yourself go and get mad when the opposite sex rejects you. We have to take care of the outside and the inside of our temple. 

This was a hard conversation to have, nonetheless it had to happen.  Remember to always present the best version of yourself!  You may only get one chance.  Good luck dating. 


Love & Light! 

Kimberly