Sunday, September 25, 2011

Single for a Time........


You live in a great city.  The best resturants and social events ever and as attractive, witty and intelligent as you are youre S I N G L E.  I'm sure lot's of you go over this question in your minds at least 2-3 times a week even with your busy schedules.  I've done the same but I came to a conclusion this past month. Everybody loves sugar but everybody shouldnt have sugar.  Let me clarify; just because your single and attractive doesnt mean that you are compatible with just "anybody".  It has to be the right mix, the right circumstances, the right time.

I know that not having that definite date on Saturday nights gets a little frustrating but if you refocus your energy on what you want and not who you want things may began to turn around.  It may not happen overnight but it will happen! Energy is key.

Ladies if your single don't stop doing those things that makes you feel special, pretty and happy.  If you got your nails done every 2 weeks while you were in a relationship you should continue to do so.  This is who you are and that shouldnt change.  If you got your hair done weekly, you should continue to get your hair groomed.  That goes for going to Victoria's Secret too!  I love that place online and in the stores.  I have to treat myself because there should never be a reason to not "live well".

So Single beautiful people get out there and live your life.  Mr. or Ms. Wonderful is not far behind you!

You go!   :)   

1 comment:

Colman said...

With this microwave society it seems that a lot of people want what they want now. They don't understand that when it comes to relationships you have 2 people from 2 different background and 2 different upbringing trying to mesh as one. That will not happen over night, it takes time, communication, understanding and trust. If you're not willing to take the time to find out who this person really is instead of thinking is this the person I want then what kind of relationship are you looking for? You also have to learn and know yourself because if you think that you are squeaky clean with no issue then you are fooling no one but yourself and it will never work. So learn yourself, learn the person you're with know that there will be some hard times but instead of jumping out of the car at the first sign of trouble talk it out first and find out if it's something worth leaving. Now don't be a fool and stay in something that you know is wrong but don't be a fool and leave something that could be right. get out of the microwave state of mind when it comes to relationships