Like Who Likes You!

I was having a conversation with some friends and we were talking about how the men that we like are unattainable and have commitment issues "aka" not interested in commitment at all.  Sound like a familiar conversation?  Well that's because its unfortunately a common discussion between ladies. Here's the problem, we've got to start liking the people that like us.  That sounded so easy didn't it?  Well that's because it is.  Why go on carrying the torch for some clown who doesn't dig you?  BYE!  Tell him BYE!  No one needs that kind of torture so stop doing it to yourself.  Give yourself a break, dating is hard enough without you kicking yourself when your down. 

Here's what your gong to do now.  Your going to get back up and start looking up from where you are and notice all the wonderful men around you that want to take you out for dinner,  call you and ask you how you are, court you incessantly and eventually, commit to you in a relationship. Yes its just that easy!  You have to look into the men who are totally into you.  Not the scary guys but that cute nice guy that you have totally over looked. Now get to it and let me know how it goes.  If it's not a love match, there's always online dating. 

Best of Love To You! 

Kimberly

Same Night Hook Ups - Are You A Slut?

 

This is a tricky and old subject however I think a lot of people still need some guidance when it comes to knowing the basics of dating.  If your interested in reading my Dating 101 post please go through the posts and have a read and update yourself!

In any case ladies if you want these men to respect you and treat you the way you always imagined a man would treat you, you have got to resist jumping into bed with guys the first day you meet or go out to dinner with them. There's a name that they may call you after this one night of bad judgement.  Actually a few names that I wont list here as I believe we already know what they are.  Besides it not being a good look its simply not safe!  There are sexually transmitted diseases that you could be exposing yourselves to.  You have to be a smarter, savvier and more sophisticated lady in the way you carry yourself.  I'm hoping that I wont have to review this again and that you ladies are set straight.  So I'll leave you with this, from the mouth of my Grandfather to his daughters growing up, "Don't Step Out Your Step In's".

On that note be well, be safe, be gracious, be a lady.

Positive Note:  There is nothing wrong with you.  You are the apple of Gods eye.  You are perfectly made and deserve the very very best always!