If Your Significant Other Cheats; Do You Stay Or Do You Go.....

Most people would believe that there is a clear answer to this question.  I know from experience that there isn't a clear cut answer to this question.  Personally I could never accept my significant other being untruthful to me in our relationship.  I definitely would not deal with infidelity.  However others have made choices that are contraire  to my preference on this topic.  I feel that its destructive to believe that being with someone who has disrespected you in this way can be forgiven.  The relationship will never be the same and you will be forever changed for it; in a bad way if you choose to stay.   

What would your decision be in this type of situation?  Would you stay or would you go?  And if you would stay, why?  I think there are lots who would want to hear your thoughts.  

Your mate wants you sexy down to your skivies! Thong, Boy Shorts, Briefs. What gets you jump started?

 

I thought I'd keep it light and fun this morning as we go out into the world to start our day.  I personally thought thongs were played out but I was recently updated from my significant other that they are a room pleaser!  Me myself bring the boxer briefs leave the tightie whities.   I'd like to here details on what types of undies you like revealed to you midday or in the evening.  Lets hear it!  I wanna hear from you at TheDatingFactor.blogspot.com.

Is there still a Caste System?

Do you need your significant other to be along the same social status as you?  Or is it fine to mix it up a bit.  He's from an upper class background and shes from a working middle class family or he's from a working lower income background and she's a total blue blood.  Does it matter?  Do we need to share a similar background to share our minds, hearts and beds to feel comfortable in private and more importantly in public?  And if these types mix will they end in matrimony or just one of those things we would like to erase from the books.  What would you do and better still is this your situation?  Share your thoughts, I'm sure lots of folks have different views.  

Would You Date Your Friends Ex?

While some of us still believe in things like loyalty, self-respect, ethics and just plain knowing right from wrong; there are some who don't consider this important in dating.  There are more than enough single available men and women out there, aren't they?  Some might say well we don't have to get personal but isn't it ummm I dare say it "Personal"?  Your friend probably slept with this person and knows things that you may never know about them.  You then have to ask your self "Do I feel comfortable with this?"  

Now of course if the friendship isn't really solid and you like to roll out a little shabby like that then you wont mind being looked at funny by all of your friends that know the situation.  Also it takes quite a special person to be comfortable with dating their ex's friend of whom they only know because of the past relationship.  Not to mention if you are super tight with that friend it may cause a lot of tension at social gatherings.  In my experience when you break up with someone you almost want to believe they died or went to some far away land so you never have to see them again in life.  So seeing them show up in the present will definitely distance if not end your current friendship.  In fact you will probably have to choose one or the other.

I believe that most people are quite territorial about "their things".  In my own opinion I think its a bit tacky; but its not my call.

I'd like to hear what you think about  getting close and personal with your friends ex significant other.  Does the pond truly have that few fish we need to go for sushi?   Leave your thoughts......

Online Dating: Nay or Yay

My guess is that most of us has tried or is currently using an online dating service.  My experience with the Match.coms and Eharmony.coms have been bad ones.  But if you have tried these sites at least you are trying to create the possibility of meeting someone good.  The downside has been that you never really know if the information that was provided is altogether true.  Is the guy really 6 feet tall or is he 5'6? Is she gainfully employed or just looking for a sugar daddy?  Is he really looking for communication and a committed relationship or a "Hook Up"?  

You just don't know.  I personally feel that if your going to roll the dice and these are your odds you may be better off just getting out there mixing and mingling among the opposite sex.  At least you know who your meeting at "face value".  We have to stop being lazy and get in the game.  Hey!  You gotta play to win.  

Whats your take on online dating?  What have your experiences been like?  Please share your thoughts.

The Ex: Friend or Foe

Dating can be so trivial.  They say it's a jungle out there; but I refuse to accept that statement.  I believe that we will ourselves into some or all of the good and bad situations that happen in our lives.  This leads me into the possibility of dating your Ex.  I know I know, its like "Oh no", don't go there. But I'm going there because it happens, bad or good.  Sometimes the ex may really be reaching out because they feel they have truly made a mistake and want to build again.  Sometimes it may not be to your advantage to take the risk.  So in the case of the Ex, Friend or Foe?  Whats been your experience?  Let me know how you feel about going back to the familiar.  What happened?  Cant wait to hear from you!

Single for a Time........

You live in a great city.  The best resturants and social events ever and as attractive, witty and intelligent as you are youre S I N G L E.  I'm sure lot's of you go over this question in your minds at least 2-3 times a week even with your busy schedules.  I've done the same but I came to a conclusion this past month. Everybody loves sugar but everybody shouldnt have sugar.  Let me clarify; just because your single and attractive doesnt mean that you are compatible with just "anybody".  It has to be the right mix, the right circumstances, the right time.

I know that not having that definite date on Saturday nights gets a little frustrating but if you refocus your energy on what you want and not who you want things may began to turn around.  It may not happen overnight but it will happen! Energy is key.

Ladies if your single don't stop doing those things that makes you feel special, pretty and happy.  If you got your nails done every 2 weeks while you were in a relationship you should continue to do so.  This is who you are and that shouldnt change.  If you got your hair done weekly, you should continue to get your hair groomed.  That goes for going to Victoria's Secret too!  I love that place online and in the stores.  I have to treat myself because there should never be a reason to not "live well".

So Single beautiful people get out there and live your life.  Mr. or Ms. Wonderful is not far behind you!

You go!   :)